Creating a Letter of Wishes doesn’t have to start with a blank document or basic template. We’ll guide you through simple questions, then organise your answers into a thoughtful Letter of Wishes that’s ready to print and keep alongside your Will.
Guided questions. Thoughtful prompts. A personalised Letter of Wishes.
What it covers
A Letter of Wishes gives you a place to record the personal guidance, explanations and messages you’d like to leave alongside your Will. We’ll guide you through each topic, one question at a time.
Record your preferences for your funeral or memorial, including music, readings, donations and anything else you'd like your family to know.
Explain the thinking behind important decisions, helping your family better understand your wishes.
Explain why you'd like particular items to go to certain people.
Record care instructions, routines and the people you'd trust to look after your pets.
Leave guidance on important online accounts and subscriptions, including where information can be found, without recording passwords.
Write personal messages for family and friends to read whenever the time feels right.
A better way
Most people know what they’d like to say. They just don’t know where to start.
Instead of staring at an empty document, simply answer one gentle question at a time. We’ll organise your responses into a clear, natural Letter of Wishes that’s ready to print, keep with your Will and update whenever life changes.
“The most meaningful things are often the hardest to put into words.”Our guided questions help you capture them, one step at a time.
How it works
No legal language or complicated forms. Just one question at a time, with the freedom to skip anything that doesn’t apply.
Your answers are organised into a thoughtful Letter of Wishes, written in a clear, natural format that’s easy for your family to read.
Download your Letter of Wishes, store it safely alongside your Will, and return to update it whenever life changes.
Wills are great for big assets, but it's often the sentimental items where a lack of clarity leads to conflict - the jewellery, the tools, the photos, the keepsakes, the heirlooms. Who Gets What helps you catalog your belongings and assign them to your loved ones to avoid family disputes later.
Start your Letter of Wishes today. It only takes a few minutes to begin, and you can come back whenever you’re ready.
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